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Originally Posted by hannabee
5. That's just dumb. You want to go to jail over this? Being selfish and letting your ego run the show.
4. welcome
3. You have to be kidding. How on earth does cutting off her finger build trust? If I were her, I'd figure you're going to kill me if there's a next time. Again, scaring her into behaving may work in the short term, but I doubt it would last.
2. Tough one, but as a woman, I figure, they'll get caught sooner or later. And who knows what can of worms you could open up (retaliation to you or her or worse, your kids?)
1. good
I guess I'm peaceful because I'm not going through it, but I can see where violence might lead.
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5. At that point, my life would be over. Why would I be worried about jail?
3. She offers her finger as a token of repentance and future commitment. This helps me. Also makes me feel she paid for her deed. When I get all worked-up and bothered because of this scenario in future, it becomes simpler for me to deal with it as she has already paid for her past acts. This is good for both of us?
2. Retaliation is something that I am now getting ready to deal with. Already pulled into the mud then why be afraid of the mudslinging. No more clean life for me. Makes me sad.