session went okay..i am not really sure how to feel about it.

after i told him things didnt happen the way he think they did...he at first said..please dont question me...(ouch).
when i continued to stand my ground and tell him this is exactly the way things happened between us...he said numerous times he felt accused, criticized, attacked and was getting frustrated as i wouldnt accept his answers.(they were not making sense to me)

about being late for 3 sessions..he said sessions can run long as important things are being discussed...i am making conclusions when i dont have all the info of what is happening while i sit in the waiting area...so i should give him benefit of doubt.

later he said he does some intensive kind of therapy where lots of stuff has to cramped in such a short time..so it gets long at times...i told him fine..doesnt matter..i have changed the appt time....

we just agreed to disagree...

i am not really sure how u r supposed to discuss differences when other person keeps on saying they are feeling criticized when i express my point of view and stick to it ?

he was just adamant...that he wouldnt do such a thing..when i know very well he did.

i had gone to the appt. thinking it could turn ugly . this could be my last session. it didnt turn out that way. it was okay. i made sure he heard how i felt and how i saw things. he didnt agree with me though.