Sounds like you are wanting a little TLC distraction. Although I constantly complain about being smothered and choked by my husband' s meddling in my private affairs I don't think I would last long in a long distant relationship. When I want him around...I want him around! I just don't know what to do with him when I am feel antisocial. I get what you are saying about the novelty of phone conversation wearing off. Not sure what to tell ya.. with my expert communication skills :-). Maybe Perna will reply, she always seems to have some action ideas.

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i don't want to tell him that i've been procrastinating all day. i don't even want to tell my therapist how much i procrastinate. i have very bizzare work habits.

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I can relate to this statement! I work like this all the time! In the middle of a project I stop and do a billion other things off task (journal, PC, check email, get a drink...,just waste time in general). In the end the project takes me forever to do but it is usually done on time. Unfortunately I create a lot of unnecessary stress in my life crying about how I am too busy to get everything done. If I would just focus and buckle down and get it done efficiently there would be so much less headache.