You wrote: what is wrong with sending her a photo i want her to see, once a week if i want to.

I went thru a thing with current t where i felt like i was a cat bringing him a dead bird every week. It eventually stopped. I wish i had paid more attention to why i stopped. I think he wanted to talk about it - one of the items was the sunday paper, which i just discontinued because someone kept stealing it, which really irritated me. But he never pushed me to stop. O course, he never pushes me to do anything. It might be his one tiny fault.