Thanks rainyday107 I'm working on growing some patiences. It's hard and she had a loud melt down in my front entry and driveway. I don't like people yelling at me though I shouldn't have replied to anything she said. It's just hard when she is attacking me and mine.

I have to remember that when she is like that nothing I say will help. Most importantly make sure the grandson isn't around for that. We try not to say anything negative about her but he is a smart boy and knows his parents don't get along or ever like each other