Your wife chose to have affairs..

You really can't put the blame on these guys., she was throwing it out there and of course many guys are going take it .

Yes you have a right to be mad .. I was furious when my first husband cheated on me... Was I mad at the women .. yes ... BUT my husband chose to cheat on me ! He was the married one ! He was most at fault !

Cheating is a choice . Your wife made that decision and it wasn't with just one guy so that kinda of speaks volumes on her mindset of her marriage.

The fact that she thinks retaliation to these guys is warranted? Oh hell NO ... just NO.. SHE DID THIS !

Sure that is going to be awful if they do go around boasting ( which I doubt)

This honestly is a time for you to take the high road .. get yourself a Therapist so you can process what happened and start to figure out if you want or can even stay married to her, Stop sleeping with her, she could have any number of STD's.

Yes your child is young and will eventually find out Mommy cheated whether you stay married or not... I personally didn't want my daughter to think it was okay for Daddy to cheat... Children learn alot of about relationships just by watching there parents..

Please be smart and stop all this thought about harming these guys.. You getting arresting is not going to help a damn thing.. You need to get a handle on that anger and find healthier ways to get through it, Hense the need for a Therapist.

Take care of you and your child..