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Originally Posted by unaluna
My t says quoting winnicott that ruptures are what a relationship is built on. For the therapy couple, the parent child dyad, okay how do I turn off spellcheck?? dyad is not a hard word, this phone is an idiot! BBL
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As for ruptures, No. 3 is the only one who has used the term. And the first one we had, she immediately called it a rupture. She had completely misconstrued something I said and I was upset, partly because of the subject matter and partly because misconstruing it the way she did required real mental gymnastics - when the simplest interpretation was obvious.
So to her at least a rupture can be immediate.
I can imagine in talk therapy ruptures are important, with the qualifier ruh roh mentions. Not so important in CBT or anything like that.