Thank you guys, you are all right and I do remind him frequently that he has a fiancée and shouldn't be saying the things he does, but I feel rude just ignoring his texts. However, I guess that's what I must do. I suppose I always felt that if I'm stil connected to him in some way, then that will hold the door open if things didn't work out with his fiancé and wanted me back, but I guess I need to tell myself I'm worth more than that.

I did ask him what is so much better about her and he said that it's not a case of her being better but that the situation forced us apart (losing his job, license etc) I know that when he is down he shuts everyone out and I don't think she's experienced that yet (especially as she doesn't live with him and sees him 2-3 times a year) so it's easy to be yourself when they aren't here. I don't think that's 100% what it comes down to, but I do know what he's like and have been told, so I believe it's probably 80% the reason.

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