I am sorry that your wife cheated but as I continue reading this something just doesn't sound right. I know people whose spouses cheated on them and it is devastating but I have never heard of people wanting to cut their spouses fingers or permanently physically impair other people. And you plan possibly killing someone if this happens again ?

Something about even suggesting such violence just doesn't sit right. What's with the violence? And you think divorce is bad for the kids but mom cutting her fingers and you impairing those guys is very good for the kids? Is this for real?

And along with all this "sex is hot". Why even mention it? You are so devastated that are you willing to end up in jail yet you talk about sex is hot with her. Something is just off.

Please see a therapist. It all sounds scary to even read.

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