Thanks everyone for your feedback. Upshot. I went over to the hospital psych ward where she is. She was transferred today 6,30.16. Got there at 3 pm. She told me to see her before 4 pm. The procedure is to go to the information desk. No prob. The woman told me visiting hrs. wasn't until 7:30 pm. Okay my woman freind was wrong but hey everyone makes mistakes. So I didn't complain to her. Felt I needed to explain since she left 3 messages why I didn't come. I explained nicely. Okay this is what I decided in getting her checkbook. Hope I don't sound really selfish but its super hot where here. Plus my primary last week diagnosed me with the wearing of the cartilage of both knees (chondromalacia) Carol wanted the checkbook to pay her rent. She told me there'd be a $30.00 late fee. I told her it was too much for me to go to her apt at night. Frankly concerned for my safety. Don't know the area that well. Let her know I would pay the difference and she doesn't owe me for the money. I wonder too if there is a case manager who can get the checkbook.