Oh that's why. Lots of people will ignore messages that have zero individuality in them. There's nothing to show them that you've read their profile, you don't give them any incentive to read your profile, you don't display any commonalities between you. There's nothing funny or engaging that draws in replies. It's ok to by shy - you can even include something like that in your messages if you are someone who uses self-deprecating humour.
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"The time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of many things. Of shoes, of ships, of sealing wax, of cabbages, of kings! Of why the sea is boiling hot, of whether pigs have wings..."
"I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am.
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