i needed this thread....thanks for that. a lot of days are "wasted" because of my depression. and, i don't do what i planned on doing, since it all falls apart. "i'm where i'm needed to be at in my life," may not sound rosey to another, but for us, it's a step in where we're going, even though it may be seem like we're at a standstill - kind of like looking at a single photograph in a roll of film of a movie, you know? "it's all life," is true. it makes sense, although i'd like to do more. sometimes, we're unable to do "more" because we're not up to it for the day or because of pain or illness.