Good luck Sister!! My T suggested couples therapy for me and my husband, but he doesn't do couples therapy with someone that he is seeing for individual-- so we would have to go to someone else for that. I personally agree with T 100% on that-- I know that many Ts see couples and then see one of the indivduals from the couple for one-on-one. I could never imagine doing couples with T. But anyway my husband said, "no way" for couples therapy so I don't have to worry about that, grrrrrrrr. Have you spoken to your husband about it already?