I think you aren't aware of how many virgins are actually on these forums, lol. And even much older than you.

But it's not like a race to the finish, there is no right way or wrong way to deal with these milestones, only your way of right or wrong. So if you decide you don't need it after all, that's still a valid position. Lol, I'm impossibly having my memory cut out of my head. But I made the point, good.

It still is very valid to encourage you to practise self love. So imagine you have a friend who is exactly like you, and you just love this friend. Treat this friend as if you only just found them, with love, attention, respect, etc.