I am really sorry that you are going through this. I had fibroids and it was horrible but the surgery took care of it. I am really hoping that you can get the medical care that you need. What you have to deal with cannot be pleasant. I don't have a lot of great answers unfortunately but I can offer you empathy and I hope and pray that you will have a resolution as soon as possible.
For what it is worth all my love and hugs too