Betrayal... by someone you trust...or thought that you did...

I HATE.. sharing my T with my adult son... it is individual therapy.. not family therapy... to be completely separate..
I wanted my son to have help.. with his current situation with his girlfriend.. and with his ADHD.. and I knew he would click with my T..

Soooooo. I shared... didn't want to.. but felt.. love of my son comes first.. and he had tried a couple of T and did not click..

Soooooo.. last week.. I mentioned.. how angry I was that my son's mail still came to my home... it means that each and everytime he overdrawals his checking account.. I see the slip.. that comes from the bank.. can't mistake it.. and it makes me worry.. and I grow concerned..

well Magically... after All this time... my son.. changed it so the his checking account mail goes to his apartment..

Sooo... was it magical.... I don't think so.. so I feel betrayed.. I feel that a piece of information I gave my T.. was used "indirectly" to have my son change....heartbroken.. BETRAYED>>>>

What other information does.. he "indirectly" pass along.. my feelings.. my past.. my DX.. gezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Am I happy I don't have to see it.. yes.. but that is NOT the point..

Does no one understand.. how upset I am???