He messaged me around 9 I think, saying it would probably be 10:30 instead of 10 and he would let me know when he was on the way. 10:30 would have been ok but 11:30 was too much. I try to be flexible since our schedules don't match up so its whenever he has a day off and that always changes. I could have just said screw it and cancel but I wait all week and wouldn't know when the next one would be. I felt stuck. It was making me anxious the longer I waited.