I'm not sure which seat my T likes to sit in. He has always let me decide where I want to sit and then strategically places himself so he can try to get some eye contact. I sit in different places each time. I usually make T move the furniture for me. It is always back to normal when I come in, but it never is when I leave.
It started out as something I just felt comfortable doing when I started, changing places each time, but now I just like to do it to be annoying and find all the bits of carpet that have not been vacuumed for years

I have also worn PJs and slippers on many occasions, especially when I'm in a really bad way - I don't think I could when I have some self esteem and pride in my look