Sooo ... I am chatting on MSN with a few IRL friends on Saturday daytime. One person in the conversation I did not really know apart from knowing 'who' he was. He is a fairly prominent local DJ and we know some of the same people (obviously).

We ended up the only two people left in the chat and talked for a while ummm sorta - flirty heh

Sunday night we have some bubbles and nibbles.

I know he has a kid by another girl, and well - he is somewhat prolific in the breeding area He has another ex gf about to have a baby.

What I didn't know (things happen for all sorts of different reasons) was that he is now back with the first child's mother.

Totally could have fooled me ...

I know it is wrong but I chatted to him for ages today at work (not supposed to be on MSN ooops).

And we had some really interesting conversations. He is definitely much different to my initial perceptions. Is not that happy with himself at the moment, we talked about some quite personal stuff.

I know I should not continue to talk to him because there are definitely sexual undertones and I don't want to hurt his partner.

Sigh.

Does anyone have any experience / advice?

I feel stupid.