Hello everyone! I am new here and have 2 major problems - maybe just one creating the other but at any rate here goes. My story is verrrrry long and complicated but in a nutshell I am very unhappily married and feel like I don't have a single person I can confide in. I have been married for 9 1/2 years and throughout my life have had and lost MANY close friends I believe because of my rocky marriage. See when things got really bad I would go to my friends and drag them in and then our relationships would just fizzle. Now I have a 4 year old son and I am 14 weeks pregnant. My h and I are fighting pretty seriously again and I just don't think I can handle it anymore. I really don't want to leave him because of my son and soon to be baby, but I can't let them live through a crappy relationship either right? Well also I have friends who say they would be there for me as a shoulder to cry on but I don't want the same thing to happen as before, put them in a situation where they don't want to or shouldn't be. But in the same respect I don't think they care as much as they say because when I or we (my h and I) invite them over to our house to play cards or go out to eat, etc. they always decline. Or they say yes and then never show up. It really hurts. So in return I don't think they like me or that I am doing something wrong. I am sorry this is so long but I just need someone to talk to. Please help!