If your t did in fact tell your son about your feelings with regards to his bank statements coming to your home, then not only would I also regard it as a form of betrayal ... but I believe it is also a breach of your confidentiality.

Your t should definitely not share with your son, anything that you have talked to your t about unless he has your expressed permission to do so .... and vice versa about the things your son shares with this t too.

But before you get too angry about it, I would double check with your t that this is indeed what has happened here.

Anything could have happened in your son's life to make him change his mind about these bank statements coming to your house - it doesnt necessarily mean your t has told your son anything that you've said in your own therapy..... but yeah - I agree it is a bit suspect.

I urge you to check with your t about this ... and then take it from there depending on what he says.