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Originally Posted by ladytiger
Friends and I had a fight last night. I disclosed how much I have in my checking. It was $ that I saved up from previous job arguing with me about how did I save that calling me a scam artist.
I told them how much I was operating under a part time salary. They said I could have had a years worth of rent paid on my own I said factor in other expenses plus if emergencies come up. It wasn't a good financial decision 4 me to do basically didn't have anywhere to go I wasn't gonna put myself into a huge financial hole. My sister knows what happened she agreed saying I wouldn't have done that.
Sister said there was something else that was going on that you didn't see she's frustrated because hubby ain't working. I got abuse from friends saying how the wife makes more than me hubby gets a VA check makes more than me even if he was unemployed. He works a odd job with a friend no get a real check!
Another friend agreed they found a way to push you out. If they didn't want me there wife shouldn't have open up her home. My sister said I feel sorry whoever the next person rents from them. Sister and friend said it's about the money money you saved from previous while they are struggling how dare you that's all I heard last night and the night before.
Hubby said I took the friendship and turned it into a business because I use people for my own gain. Everybody on here had told me get a roommate and you can't afford rent on your own under part time. This wife is an accountant yet having financial issues! Everything in the house is in her name 2 cars 3 cell phones 7 dogs 4 cats tons of fish. Hubby said I painted a sob story the Apts we all got evicted. Technically I was homeless wasn't making crap from previous job homeless now while being at this new job for 2 weeks under 90 day probation.
I've known these friends for a year. I told wife you're jealous by what I saved she got defensive claiming she's glad that I saved that much $ yet didn't tell them in the beginning. I feel now I shouldn't have disclose my info I said that's not important what's important is going by what I was making biweekly not what I have in my accounts then pitched at me for having a 403b with previous employer.
They said I wouldn't be surprised if I have 10 in my savings which I don't. We were in this kink dynamic she was my mistress a mentoring relationship. They said why does her son have to suffer? He works has nothing to do with me. His assets have nothing to do with me friends felt I wasn't grateful didn't take **** seriously I took it seriously I did what she wanted. I'm sure I'm gonna be equated to my ex. Hubby said he doesn't want friends like me I said I don't want jealous friends who mistreat someone like this. Wife was right in the very beginning of moving in if this wasn't gonna work live somewhere else.
Hubby said go tell this same sob story to other people who will believe your lies. Sister said they are living beyond their means they have 7 dogs 4 cats and fish! I helped take care of them and cleaned the house. She said I wasn't grateful? I wasn't grateful because I frowned at pork that they like but I don't eat sorry don't like pork. I are food they provided and I bought my own.
Wife said I'd hear you and my hubby laughing and talking when I came in you stopped talking. That's true I figured she and hubby needed to talk before she went to work. I clicked with him better than her I felt like walking on eggshells with her than him. No I didn't sleep with her man my sister said Ahh that's what's up jealous because i had a better connection with her hubby than her.
They said earlier in the very beginning that I was gonna end up ruining the friendship we they helped end it. Wife said I'm toxic that me being there caused her too much stress you shouldn't have offered me a room I rented a room. The mentoring felt like nagging parents her son isn't her husband's child son is 19. Wife said before we moved in you and I were nothing but acquaintances excuse me? She considered me a friend before going through drama with my ex to now I was just an acquaintance? She said if you need help don't take friends for granted. So I figured I was a friend to her always told me she cared about me.
Wife got deep issues from what I was told about her and her mom yea I can see it. They told me they have a right to brag about what they have versus what I don't I said real friends don't brag. 4th time wife told me how much she makes! Her hubby turns over his $ to her she runs the show in her house. It's not fair to me that her anger is being taken out on me.
We got into an argument about jobs I explained my job experience with the interviews I said that's the reality of what's really going on which is bs. I applied to other low paying jobs some turned me down had to leave messages after messages attitude from the receptionist about the status of my application.
They said you probably used other people in the past. The past is in the past they can believe what they want. I told them in a text as I left thank you for the month whether you believe this or not is up to you I have no animosity. I said it politely no need 4 hatred. I'll make it without their help.
Just venting so upset.
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From the sound of it, they used you ...
Especially the part about you being the wife's kinky mistress and her mentoring you!
Please, learn to love and care more about yourself than to allow others to use your body in exchange for food, clothing and shelter.
I know it's hard out here when we're alone and on our own, but ...
In spite of the struggles, at least we get to keep our dignity and self-respect in tact!
Sincerely,
Pfrog!