Hi. I am dating a 25 year old. I am 33. I'm not happy emotionally. But he seems to want to move fast physically. I am ok with this because it feels good physically. I keep feeling awful though. I don't know him well. And I have trust issues. I worry about something different everyday with this guy. Don't even know if I want to get to know him. I thought I liked him. I am in a different place than him. I told him I am beyond the whole moving fast thing. But then find myself making out with him in his car. I feel like the very things I would give advice to people here, I'm going against my own advice. I just feel very uneasy about all this. And I want to just get my mind off it. I wish I was the kind of person who...could do stuff like this (make out with a guy she likes in his car she barely knows). And not pay too much thought to it. I don't think he's very mature. I know I wasn't at that age. He was super overcome with sex hormones. It made me happy. But it was also weird. Like, dude, control yourself. He says he likes me. And wants to get to know me. But I don't feel a connection emotionally. And I need that. I also wonder if he's just saying that he wants to get to know me and wants to date me, because I'm the second woman he's ever been with and he's super horny.

There's a part of me like, I can do this. And a part of me like, I can't. Help.