My daughter is in therapy now since the con experience. She's saying things like she hates love songs all they do is write a love song than a break up song. And why do I like so many love songs? She's says she's Bisexual, but doesn't want to have sex ever.
I try to talk to talk her through what I can but I'm concerned. I know this is from the damage he has caused. It has warped her views on life. I don't know if it is fixable. I had virtually no health problems. Now I'm always unwell.
I just tried to lightly talk about some of it. I said if I made a million dollars writing a love song I'd keep writing them. Told her relationships are hard. Life isnt always rainbows and butterflies but the tough stuff makes us stronger. I told her everyone has hard stuff to go through. Many relate to the songs. Than I said some lives are tragic mine is more difficult than most, most people face hardships. Tragedy may come and you just have to work through it.
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Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P.
Daughter: 20
Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs.
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