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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
You are at the end of your rope for a reason, you are choosing partners that are controlling and abusive and don't respect YOU.
This means you are in an abusive relationship. You should never have to try that hard. You need to have therapy so you can get to the bottom of why you end up choosing the wrong individuals as partners. You have developed a victim mentality and you need to get to the bottom of it so you don't live out your life as an ongoing victim in the relationships you have.
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Forget about it. You never to prove you are good woman to him. Only person you need to be proving anything of your decency is you. You don't need his approval. You do need your own. I lived with emotionally abusive man for some time and I my self image of me was as low as the Marianna Trench. ie lowest part of the earth's oceans. Too me years of therapy to recover. I know personally it can be extremely rough to be in an abusive relationship of any kind.