I know it isn't fun but a lawsuit really does not move in a fashion of what non-lawyers think of as quickly. Around a year or more is not unusual in my experience with civil suits. It is usually not just because individual lawyers are slow -but because of the whole arc of the process and how it is set up. It is usually quicker than the process of therapy if that is any comfort.
The divorce orders around here are not usually as long - but months, again, is not unusual.