ex-T telling me that i would never heal from the traumas of my early childhood abuse unless i became spiritual...that was the final red-flag with her that encouraged me to find a more experienced T. this same T also tried to reassure me that my early traumas should not be as bad as i thought they were because my perpetrator was only the next door neighbor after all and not my dad. definilty a big red flag that she knew very little about the effects of truama....