If I read the post, she told him one thing verbally, the other non-verbally. She said she was going against her own advice. She said him being sexually turned on made her feel happy.
Not that he didn't listen to her.

I am not saying this way going into the correct direction, but you guys make it sound he was bad and rightly dumped. If he was posting here, I think you guys would say "Hey don't worry about it. She was not good enough for you. Blabla. You dodged a bullet."

She didn't say he was immature.

She didn't say he humped her in the car.