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Originally Posted by Talthybius
If I read the post, she told him one thing verbally, the other non-verbally. She said she was going against her own advice. She said him being sexually turned on made her feel happy.
Not that he didn't listen to her.
I am not saying this way going into the correct direction, but you guys make it sound he was bad and rightly dumped. If he was posting here, I think you guys would say "Hey don't worry about it. She was not good enough for you. Blabla. You dodged a bullet."
She didn't say he was immature.
She didn't say he humped her in the car.
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Talthybius, I'm the original poster. I don't know why you're taking such a personal opinion with my own issue, maybe you feel rejected yourself by someone. but this guy tried to hump me in his car. He was immature. He was sending me red flags left and right. I was also uncomfortable. I told him to stop. I told him I had to go and he grabbed my *** when I got out of the car. The fact that someone may enjoy sex and also not want to have it and be made uncomfortable with someone coming on to them, is a normal human thing. It's not black and white thinking. Its what makes people feel pressured into having sex. its what makes it hard for someone to say no in the heat of the moment. I was confused and trying to work out my feelings here. My feelings are worked out. I dumped a guy for moving too fast with me and having bad boundaries, and giving me a bad feeling.
Talthybius, I am not comfortable with you posting to me about this issue. Or anyone, really, trying to pick apart and piece apart things I did and said, of no relevance to me, in order to make themselves feel better for whatever reason. Its not helpful or supportive to me.