Thanks. I understand it's really just a "fancy" word for feelings. I just don't understand why two consenting adults are obligated to shut down emotions or what they maybe feeling. I've been in therapy for about 11 years and have made great strides. I just can't shake these feelings for my T. I have pretty much normal relationships outside therapy. Question is should I tell my T and hope for the best? The best being he doesn't look at me like some freak and refer me to someone else. Or do I sit on what I feel and pretend I feel nothing?