Hi all you wonderful people out there! this forum has helped me keep my sanity when i was going through difficult times in past. but now its the worst so far. I will try to keep it short - I'm a mother of a beautiful baby girl who is 18 months old, and I'm going through divorce. I didn't want this to happen but still its happening. I will also share the details someday, but for now, i really truly bliev that despite my faults I didnot deserve this to happen to me.

My soon to be Ex Husband knows this VERY well that I'm emotionally not strong. and still he is making me miserable. he was a loving father, really took care of our baby girl, But now he's not thinking about her at all. I'm from Pakistan and in our society the future of children of divorced parents is usually considred bleak and there's no way it will be a joint custody, she will just stay with me. he knows this and is still fine with it. which maks me think that am i so bad that in order to gt rid of me my husband is even willing to let go of his beloved daughter. one thing more, he is mainly doing this due to his family pressure but thats no excuse.

The main reason I'm here is that im finding it really hard to keep myself together. he has verbally divorced me and according to our religion im divorced. i also know this for fact that divorce papers are also ready and he might be sending them to me any time soon. h also said to me in when we last communicatd that he's going to re-marry real quick. and i hav heard that its going to happen in next 10 days. he divorcd me 20 days ago.. im really depressed..unable to think clearly and to be very frank im still in denial phase..im still kind of hoping that everything will be magically fine but yeah its quite impossible now. please help me in how to kep myself emotionally stable. i might already have undiagnosed bipolar and du to some prsonal reasons therapy is out of question for now.
i need to know that in my case - unwanted divorce - after how much tim i will start feeling normal again? im 30 years old. i want to get stable real quick so that i can be there for my baby girl. in my past i have been emotionally unstable and according to my husband he was tired of all this. but there were so many other factors, like his family, which i will tell the details later on.
my concerns plz....
1) how much it will take for me to accept this divorce and start the healing process?
2) Will i EVER be able to get over this divorce.
3) what should i do to bring myself together and to be emotionally stabl for my girl.

your kind responses will be highly appreciated. may God help us all!