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Old Jul 03, 2016, 11:25 AM
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Shattered007 if he is a competent therapist he will not look at you like a freak and refer you elsewhere.

I think therapy is not helpful if one cannot discuss things that feel important and that trying to ignore issues can make them worse.

On the other hand you might be hoping to have an actual romantic relationship with this therapist and I think this is unlikely to be in your best interests. So, its worth discussing it with T but keep in mind that if he is a proper professional and really does have your best interests at heart, he will not take this as an opportunity to initiate a romantic relationship - and that this in fact is a good thing.
Thanks for this!
Shattered007