This is odd. Pretty sure there is more info here either through PM or previous posts.

Anyway, the only people making this personal is divine1966 and starrysky, suggesting the advice I give are wrong because they are coloured by my personal experiences or frustrations and that being wrong.

It's just odd that a person comes here, complains about a relationship going in the wrong direction, with no talk about ending it. Then a person comes and only says 'dump him'.

Then OP comes back and says 'Ok, he is dumped.'.

If he groped you, ignored 'stop', made you feel uncomfortable, yes, this is the right decision. But that wasn't in the OP. All that was in the OP was the poster being turned on by the physical, but being unsure about the emotional, and them failing to communicate effectively, with it being unclear who was to blame for that.

In the OP, they were going too fast. Not him. In the OP, he was as mature as she was at his age.

This relationship was probably in a bad vibe that made it hard to recover from. Probably she should have ended the relationship much earlier. But I just don't think we are doing the OP justice by high-fiving her dumping someone.
And saying 'he doesn't sound like the right person for you' is completely different.

No, I don't make it sound like they divorced.

'Dumping' people on command because a complete stranger online tells you to do so is odd and immature. That is how this post read to me.

Also, if he gives her exactly what she wants in the moment, which is what it sounds like, but she is uncomfortable with her own sexuality, or unable to set boundaries for herself, the solution is not to 'dump' people. Dumping people doesn't make you better at making an emotional connection.

Of course this goes with the trend of this place just telling people what they want to hear.

That's why I don't post things I think people feel is supportive to them. That's deceptive and dishonest behavior.

That the OP says she is not comfortable by me looking at it differently suggests to me I am not wrong.