This is just not okay. My therapist has done nothing to this extent, but even when she was late a few times in a row, I said that if a client did that, it would be viewed as being resistant. I wanted to know if she was resistant toward me. She seemed surprised by that, said not at all, and it never happened again.

If you bring this up and your therapist gets defensive or puts it back on you, that's a really good sign to leave--that is, if you want to even give her that chance. Her behavior towards you sounds really disrespectful, to say the least.