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Old Jul 03, 2016, 04:03 PM
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Set boundaries.

Having a conversation with him at an appropriate time, probably not when he's bringing him up, could help.

Perhaps take him out for a cup of coffee and have a discussion with him about how you need to move on and continually referencing him and berating him isn't doing you any good.

Why does he do this?

Well I don't know. But he seems to need to keep reminding you of what a jerk your ex is, for whatever that reason may be. Perhaps he never wants you running back to him ... or (less likely) feels like he is "supporting" you.
Thanks for this!
Bill3