I hope the above comment helps in some way. My partner doesn't like my reactions, he says, "Why do you have to react like that?" He is very controlled and doesn't let other people see the real him. In fact, he prides himself on it. I am not like him, and that's that. He also doesn't understand why I still carry pain from my childhood. Fine, he doesn't need to understand. I just keep working away at myself, but I do it for myself, because I don't want to be at the mercy of my emotions, it's too painful and confusing.
It has taken me until my forties to confront this.
Living alone may be the answer, it may not. I don't think you are incompatible with the human race. I think you are a highly sensitive young woman who is struggling with a lot of pain. Hugs