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Originally Posted by unaluna
What i meant was - i know it is heartbreaking to be in that situation. What helped me was to think of it as, they have made their choice on how to live their lives. You dont have to limit yourself to what THEY are capable of. I think we have an obligation (like to humanity, to the universe) to make the best of our talents.
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I think that's a very good point, only if I can somehow get it through to my heart. It's easy to get caught up in drama and also real suffering of people around, and then think what's the point? And therefore don't pursue any goal, don't realize your potential, as it's been the case with me. My T always tells me I have talents and abilities and I can have some success in life. If I can have that kind of emotional intensity that I have about my family, if I can bring that to myself and my goals and put my heart into them, I think I can accomplish things and feel more satisfaction in my life and also make enough money and god-willing one day even start a family...before it's too late.
p.s. I'm glad I posed this thread, I'm already feeling better, and I was feeling so ashamed and worried about people judging me harshly, but so far it's been nice. Thanks everyone.