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Originally Posted by bluebicycle
Wow, she spread your diagnosis? That is NOT okay.
You're definitely between a rock and a hard place right now.
I'm not sure what to say because you've tried handling your sister for a while now and it sounds like she's not going to change.
Have you told your sister that you want to cut her off because of her behavior? Or did you just cut her off without telling her? If it's the latter, can you tell her that she needs to decide what she wants to do? Tell her you'll give her time to think long and hard about her decision.
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Yeah....she used my diagnosis and suicide attempt to get sympathy for herself. Basically she was telling people she didn't know what to do because I got diagnosed with BPD and tried to kill myself and she was just beside herself and blah blah blah. She did the exact same thing 9 years ago when my best friend died. She didn't even know him but used his death to get attention.
I have tried to tell her three different times since the beginning of this year that her behavior was causing me an undue about of stress. She basically denied doing anything I cited as reasons for my stress and ran to my mom saying I was being mean to her. It's kind of a disaster.
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Bipolar I
Borderline Personality Disorder
ADHD
Generalized Anxiety Disorder
"You," he said, "are a terribly real thing in a terribly false world, and that, I believe, is why you are in so much pain.”
― Emilie Autumn, The Asylum for Wayward Victorian Girls
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