funny, i've never been able to climax whether i was on or off of my antidepressants. i can do it on my own, though, it requires a vibrator. but, never have i been able to do so with my lovely guy. if i could do it with him, i think it would please him a whole lot, you know? but i've told him that i'm pleased even if i can't climax with him because i'm more than happy to satisfy his sexual appetite. and it doesn't require me to climax for me to feel happy about sex.