My heart goes out. Truly.
I have a dear friend living with BPD and her life has been very difficult due to her inner experiences re: interpersonal conflicts. She had experienced tremendous excruciating internal psychological pain when others barely register/notice a "conflict." I wish I could makes things easier for her, as her own interpretation/experience tears her apart inside.
She's an incredibly beautiful person! I love her dearly!
She has made major strides in decreasing her own hyper-sensitivity/"reactivity" via learning/applying DBT. She is handling life much better.
I am so happy for her, in that her life is getting easier, more enjoyable.
I feel people challenged with BPD are often misunderstood. Much understanding and compassion, including self-compassion, is warranted and also very helpful.
WC