First off, if I came across that kind of money I would make sure it was invested in a place where it can't be touched & continue living off what I was living on before I got it because it's too easy to fritter away the money & really not see any real results. He may be saving it for a serious investment plan he has in the future & doesn't want to use any of it for anything else.....that would be the way I would handle it, so it wouldn't just be money he could use for buying a plane ticket to hop on & see you.

Hard to tell where he's coming from right now.....but honestly, I would just bide my time with him & let him do whatever he wants....observe, & let that be your guide to how he truly feels about you. If he loves you, he will make a way to get to see you....if not, then that's your indication that he doesn't have the same feelings about you as you have about him & that's just the way relationships go sometimes no matter what was felt in the past.

You can't make things go back the way they were if that's NOT how the other person feels any longer no matter how bad you want it to be that way.

Focus on your med school & make a success out of yourself. If he wants to be part of your life he will make it happen, otherwise someone else will come along that fits into your med school life or career life better. Sometimes when we try to make the old fit into a new lifestyle, it just doesn't work.

I would just back off & see what happens personally.