I find that if i have a choice as soon as i choose option one i want option two. This can be from something simple like choosing a meal... shall i eat chinese or fish and chips... as soon as i order one i want the other... and then don't enjoy the one i have chosen. Bigger decisions like shall we go away for the weekend or not... If we don't go I spend the whole weekend wishing we had, and if we do I wish we hadn't. I find i can't make big decisions (like moving house) and then end up doing the default of doing nothing and later regretting it. I have always had some degree of difficulty with decisions but over the last two or three years it has become a real problem. In fact it is ruining my life as i end up not enjoying whatever i am doing as i regret what i am not doing.
Has anyone else experienced similar problems? I am really interested to know if anyone has, and also for any ways to combat this.
Thank you
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