Probably right where I am. I haven't found my diagnosis has kept me from having what is really important in my life. I have a career, a family, hobbies, a home. Yes, I've had some horrid times with my mental health, but I've also come through those times so I feel very fortunate that way. I know many people without mental health issues who have had a much harder time maintaining their jobs or marriages, or who struggle daily with other kinds of very serious other issues in life, etc. This was my challenge, but I've kind of learned most people have their own challenges also and probably ask that same question: What would my life be like if . . .? I try not to "what if" my life.