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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky
Thanks for your replies.
Yeah, you're not the only ones to tell me that... but I'm still unsure about what the problem is (me? the therapist?)
I technically could try some other T... but I should ask my parents for that (I'm 18). My fear is to look like a spoiled child who just can't trust other people to them.
As for the phone thing.. well, it doesn't really bother me, but yeah, it's kind of rude. Especially becauase he doesn't even ask permission, or apologize. He also smokes sometimes (with an electronic cigarette) but he asks permission for that.
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One of you doesn't have to be a problem - just maybe, as has been said, it's not a good fit. The second one I tried - I felt a lot of similar things. He told me I couldn't sit where I wanted to, and then proceeded to regard me with a very judgemental and condescending air. There is something in how someone makes you feel. I just dropped him immediately - and it was lucky I did. My third one was wonderful - we have a great rapport.
Also - playing on phone?? What the heck? You are supposed to have their undivided attention. My current one is vaguely irritated / possibly even a little embarrassed if his office phone rings in session and instructs me to ignore it and does a very good job of ignoring it himself.