You haven't even gotten the divorce yet......but that money will be split. Not sure why he's so quick to want to sell the house before the divorce settlement. I would think that the money would have to go into a fund that would in the end be divided by the judge when the divorce is final & he wouldn't get a cent of it now?

Do you have a lawyer on your side to help you through this?....if not, you seriously need to get one ASAP