Guy #1 isn't as fishy sounding as you'd think. He's more upfront and honest than anything. He's just being cautious I think.

He and I are making plans to meet up. Since he lives 4 hours away, he is asking a friend of his who lives in my area if he can stay with them a couple of days. However, since the friend is over seas visiting family, we won't be meeting up for another few weeks.