We are very tired of new Ts. Had 3 in past yr! Not personal..company shifting..blah blah blah. We just stay hidden..try to keep up appearance of United front. Sick of doubters, sick of inquisitions, sick of being told "what DID looks like".... sorry we are people not check lists..we do not all "look" the same! And those of us who have been around for the long ride are not stupid..obviously we are aware of both our individual selves and legal identity. We can create a middle ground being when we don't want to be known. Duh!.. it's just like acting... we have written legal identity character and edited it and practiced it over many yrs. We don't want to be locked up in ward for life...not presenting DID has become just as much a survival skill as our individual functions are. How do so many drs. find this more inconceivable than completely unaware???!!!