I;m sorry you are going through this. Relationships are difficult enough to make work when everyone is well.

If you are as unstable as you say with possible undiagnosed bipolar I would think the first thing you would want to do is to get to a psychiatrist who could work with you on getting meds to stabilize you so that you would stop having the problems you are dealing with.....if your problem is bipolar, his parents are only adding to your problems but they aren't your problem.

Sadly, the longer you take to get stabilized the longer it's going to take you to get over the divorce & get on with your life especially if you want to be a positive force in your daughter's life.

I understand it's difficult but when we don't take care of our own selves & the problems we have we only end up hurting ourselves & our children worse & that is sad just like the break up of a marriage.