Good idea not to confront. I agree that you need to focus on your own life and school and work. I don't know why you are saying she needs your help, or that she doesn't deserve your help. You guys broke up and she is dating someone else. I don't see how she needs help, but if she does there are plenty of resources out there. I don't see why she would want her ex's help with anything. I would not worry about her needing help

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