Well we all know my husband's stance on couples therapy

I wish you luck with it! My T initially saw me and then my husband and I a few times and my husband alone once.

I can tell you this from that experience. I would not have accomplished what I have so far if we would have continued doing all types of therapy under my T.

The reason is he and I needed to build our relationship and when he was doing couples therapy, at times, he was pissing me the hell off quite frankly

But that was his job and he did it well. I think it would've hurt my progress in the long term. I didn't see that at the time but I do now. So I guess it's good my husband backed out but he still needs a therapist.

I hope this helps you a bit.